I have learned to not get too excited and hopeful for Iranian players to someday go to europe after perhaps a good season in IPL. A lot of members here are hopeful that any player that is promising for a season or two may be our next "Daei," or "Mahdavikia," or etc, etc. The truth is that these players that do end up becoming legendary and legionerres have had there sights on this goal for a very long time. In psychology it is called having a long and exceptional delayed gratification.
from wiki:
"Delayed gratification, or deferred gratification, is the ability to resist the temptation for an immediate reward and wait for a later reward. Generally, delayed gratification is associated with resisting a smaller but more immediate reward in order to receive a larger or more enduring reward later."
It is very obvious from a young age if a person has this delayed gratification. It is the difference between someone willing to work hard day and night and go to school for years in the hopes/belief that someday it will pay off and all there thousands in debt will be payed off with a huge paycheck, and someone who drops out of high school to go make a quick $12 an hour at a supermarket.
Alireza Jahanbakhsh did an interview with Navad while at Damash and portrayed this quality of his nicely. He spoke of how it is a shame that mostly all Nojavanan TM players never make it to TM and said that unfortunately they get "full" to fast but that he is still and for along time will always be hungry ("ghoshne") for more.
Just my 2 cents on why I don't really care where Taremi ends up going.
from wiki:
"Delayed gratification, or deferred gratification, is the ability to resist the temptation for an immediate reward and wait for a later reward. Generally, delayed gratification is associated with resisting a smaller but more immediate reward in order to receive a larger or more enduring reward later."
It is very obvious from a young age if a person has this delayed gratification. It is the difference between someone willing to work hard day and night and go to school for years in the hopes/belief that someday it will pay off and all there thousands in debt will be payed off with a huge paycheck, and someone who drops out of high school to go make a quick $12 an hour at a supermarket.
Alireza Jahanbakhsh did an interview with Navad while at Damash and portrayed this quality of his nicely. He spoke of how it is a shame that mostly all Nojavanan TM players never make it to TM and said that unfortunately they get "full" to fast but that he is still and for along time will always be hungry ("ghoshne") for more.
Just my 2 cents on why I don't really care where Taremi ends up going.
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